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Parenting On a Different Path
When your parenting journey changes course, so do your friendships. Here’s how I learned to grieve, grow, and guard my peace.
Oct 313 min read


Grief in The Days Leading Up to His Birthday
The days before Elias’ birthday are always the hardest. Grief and joy can coexist — and it’s okay to feel both deeply.
Oct 292 min read


The Hidden Weight Behind Harmless Questions
‘Did you know before he was born?’ Some questions carry more weight than we realise. Curiosity is fine — but compassion matters more.
Oct 262 min read


Navigating Family Life with Both Complex and Typically Developing Children
Balancing the needs of all your children isn’t easy, but inclusion means making sure every child knows they always belong
Oct 193 min read


When Leaders Blame Mothers: Why Trump’s Tylenol Claim Is Harmful to Families Like Ours
Trump’s Tylenol claim isn’t science — it’s blame. Autism isn’t a mother’s fault. Parent carers deserve support, not shame.
Sep 273 min read


The Guilt of Letting Things Slip - Glasses edition
Parent carer guilt is brutal. One missed appointment feels like failure, even when you’ve fought endlessly to be heard.
Sep 263 min read


The World Wasn't Built for My Child...and I'm Tired of Begging for a Place in It
It’s not enough our children fight daily battles; we’re forced to fight too, for the basic right of accessibility and inclusion.
Sep 132 min read


Discipline & Complex Needs: Fair Doesn’t Always Mean Equal
Finding the right way to discipline a child with complex needs can feel like walking a tightrope — especially when there’s a sibling watching and learning.
Sep 13 min read


Can't He Just Be Having a Bad Day?
Not every bad day needs a diagnosis. Sometimes kids are just off; and parent carers deserve space to be human too.
Aug 182 min read


SEND Swimming
Navigating swimming lessons for a child with additional needs.
Aug 43 min read


Parenting Through Tactile Defensiveness
When hugs aren’t comforting. Parenting a child with tactile defensiveness means learning to love in ways that don’t involve touch.
Jul 52 min read


When Little Brothers Get Bigger
Elias’ little brother is now overtaking him — first the milestones, now in size. Bittersweet moments in our beautifully complex world.
Jun 222 min read


The Precarious Balancing Act of Working as a Parent Carer
For parent carers, work isn’t just about income it’s about survival. The balance is delicate, and too often, inflexible systems push us out
Jun 122 min read


Missing Milestones: School 1 Mum 0
Missing milestones at home while your child thrives at school is bittersweet. You’re not alone, and it doesn’t make you a bad parent.
Jun 12 min read


School Holidays Are Coming (SEND Snacks)
School holidays + complex needs = chaos. We’re surviving with snacks, humour & a backup plan. Here’s how we’re navigating Easter!
Apr 172 min read


Pampers’ Size 9 Nappies: A Game-Changer for SEND Families, Not a Headline for Outrage
Pampers’ Size 9 nappies are a win for SEND families, yet headlines focus on the wrong issues. This is about dignity, not controversy
Mar 312 min read


Celebrating the Mothers Who Show Up Every Day
Happy Mother’s Day to all the warriors, the advocates, the caregivers
Mar 302 min read


Breaking Down the Terminology: “Special Needs,” “Complex Needs,” and Disability in the UK
Terms like ‘special needs’ and ‘disabled’ carry stigma, but language evolves. Let’s focus on inclusion, not just semantics, for true equity
Jan 53 min read


The Impact of Inadequate SEND Support on Parents’ Employment
Three out of four parents of SEND children must quit or reduce work hours due to lack of support. It’s time for reform.
Sep 7, 20242 min read
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