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Nobody Told Me Bonding Could Be Hard
A heartfelt look at bonding with your newborn when hospital stays, trauma and grief make those early moments look very different.
Aug 234 min read


The Limbo Admission
Surgery has a shape. You can prepare for before and after. But the monitoring admission? No shape. Just hours, stacked on top of each other, in a room that smells of hand sanitiser, trying to read your child's face for clues the machines aren't picking up. We came home with no diagnosis. Here's why that still felt like a win.
Jul 113 min read


Q1 Review: Is Your Child Still Operational? A Quarterly Business Review
The quarterly business review season of parenting a child with additional needs. Audiologist. Physio. Paediatrician. All at once. Obviously.
May 13 min read


Put Your Armour Down, Mama (Most People Are Actually Rooting For You)
Parenting a child with additional needs means expecting the worst. But what if most people are actually, quietly, rooting for you
Mar 144 min read


The Birthday I Spent in ICU, and the Nurses Who Made It Bearable
My 1st birthday as a parent was spent in ICU with Elias. A cake and a group of nurses reminded me that hospital staff hold families together
Feb 13 min read


What Having a Disabled Child Really Does to a Relationship
It's not a lack of love that strains relationships after diagnosis; it's exhaustion, grief and doing an impossibly hard job
Jan 243 min read


Why Speaking Up About Disability and Diagnosis Matters
An unexpected diagnosis can change everything. Why voices like Jesy Nelson’s matter and why no parent should face this alone.
Jan 42 min read


When Santa Signs: Why Inclusive Grottos Matter More Than We Realise
Seeing Santa sign changed everything. Inclusion turned a simple grotto visit into pure joy — and a Christmas memory we’ll always hold close.
Dec 25, 20253 min read


Finding the Right Team for Your Child… and Hoping They Actually Stay
Finding the right team for your child is everything. When amazing people come and go, it’s personal—but the right ones become family.
Nov 22, 20253 min read


Parenting On a Different Path
When your parenting journey changes course, so do your friendships. Here’s how I learned to grieve, grow, and guard my peace.
Oct 31, 20253 min read


Grief in The Days Leading Up to His Birthday
The days before Elias’ birthday are always the hardest. Grief and joy can coexist — and it’s okay to feel both deeply.
Oct 29, 20252 min read


The Hidden Weight Behind Harmless Questions
‘Did you know before he was born?’ Some questions carry more weight than we realise. Curiosity is fine — but compassion matters more.
Oct 26, 20252 min read


When Leaders Blame Mothers: Why Trump’s Tylenol Claim Is Harmful to Families Like Ours
Trump’s Tylenol claim isn’t science — it’s blame. Autism isn’t a mother’s fault. Parent carers deserve support, not shame.
Sep 27, 20253 min read


The Guilt of Letting Things Slip - Glasses edition
Parent carer guilt is brutal. One missed appointment feels like failure, even when you’ve fought endlessly to be heard.
Sep 26, 20253 min read


The World Wasn't Built for My Child...and I'm Tired of Begging for a Place in It
It’s not enough our children fight daily battles; we’re forced to fight too, for the basic right of accessibility and inclusion.
Sep 13, 20252 min read


Can't He Just Be Having a Bad Day?
Not every bad day needs a diagnosis. Sometimes kids are just off; and parent carers deserve space to be human too.
Aug 18, 20252 min read


SEND Swimming
Navigating swimming lessons for a child with additional needs.
Aug 4, 20253 min read


The Wraparound Care Crisis
When school ends, support ends. Wraparound care for children with additional needs shouldn’t be a luxury
Jul 20, 20252 min read


Story Explorers: Chaos, Kindness & a Dance Party at the British Library
Story Explorers at the British Library: joyful chaos, inclusive fun, and Elias leading the party train. Get there early — trust me!
Jul 12, 20252 min read


Parenting Through Tactile Defensiveness
When hugs aren’t comforting. Parenting a child with tactile defensiveness means learning to love in ways that don’t involve touch.
Jul 5, 20252 min read
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