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The Limbo Admission
Surgery has a shape. You can prepare for before and after. But the monitoring admission? No shape. Just hours, stacked on top of each other, in a room that smells of hand sanitiser, trying to read your child's face for clues the machines aren't picking up. We came home with no diagnosis. Here's why that still felt like a win.
Jul 113 min read


How Not to Lose Your First Tooth
Elias lost his first tooth after a birthday balloon accident, emergency dentists and one very panicked mum trying to hold it together.
May 93 min read


Put Your Armour Down, Mama (Most People Are Actually Rooting For You)
Parenting a child with additional needs means expecting the worst. But what if most people are actually, quietly, rooting for you
Mar 144 min read


The Kitchen Explorer: Learning to Love Elias's Solo Adventures
How to handle your complex needs child needing space
Feb 155 min read


What Having a Disabled Child Really Does to a Relationship
It's not a lack of love that strains relationships after diagnosis; it's exhaustion, grief and doing an impossibly hard job
Jan 243 min read


When Santa Signs: Why Inclusive Grottos Matter More Than We Realise
Seeing Santa sign changed everything. Inclusion turned a simple grotto visit into pure joy — and a Christmas memory we’ll always hold close.
Dec 25, 20253 min read


Parenting On a Different Path
When your parenting journey changes course, so do your friendships. Here’s how I learned to grieve, grow, and guard my peace.
Oct 31, 20253 min read


Grief in The Days Leading Up to His Birthday
The days before Elias’ birthday are always the hardest. Grief and joy can coexist — and it’s okay to feel both deeply.
Oct 29, 20252 min read


Navigating Family Life with Both Complex and Typically Developing Children
Balancing the needs of all your children isn’t easy, but inclusion means making sure every child knows they always belong
Oct 19, 20253 min read


The Guilt of Letting Things Slip - Glasses edition
Parent carer guilt is brutal. One missed appointment feels like failure, even when you’ve fought endlessly to be heard.
Sep 26, 20253 min read


Discipline & Complex Needs: Fair Doesn’t Always Mean Equal
Finding the right way to discipline a child with complex needs can feel like walking a tightrope — especially when there’s a sibling watching and learning.
Sep 1, 20253 min read


Can't He Just Be Having a Bad Day?
Not every bad day needs a diagnosis. Sometimes kids are just off; and parent carers deserve space to be human too.
Aug 18, 20252 min read


The Wraparound Care Crisis
When school ends, support ends. Wraparound care for children with additional needs shouldn’t be a luxury
Jul 20, 20252 min read


Parenting Through Tactile Defensiveness
When hugs aren’t comforting. Parenting a child with tactile defensiveness means learning to love in ways that don’t involve touch.
Jul 5, 20252 min read


When Little Brothers Get Bigger
Elias’ little brother is now overtaking him — first the milestones, now in size. Bittersweet moments in our beautifully complex world.
Jun 22, 20252 min read


To the Dads Who Stay, Who Show Up, and Who Do Their Very Best – Happy Father's Day
To the dads who show up, stay strong, and love loudly in the quiet moments—we see you. Happy Father's Day from all of us at CPG.
Jun 15, 20251 min read


The Precarious Balancing Act of Working as a Parent Carer
For parent carers, work isn’t just about income it’s about survival. The balance is delicate, and too often, inflexible systems push us out
Jun 12, 20252 min read


Missing Milestones: School 1 Mum 0
Missing milestones at home while your child thrives at school is bittersweet. You’re not alone, and it doesn’t make you a bad parent.
Jun 1, 20252 min read


Celebrating the Mothers Who Show Up Every Day
Happy Mother’s Day to all the warriors, the advocates, the caregivers
Mar 30, 20252 min read


The Least of Our Worries: How Parenting a Child with Complex Needs Rewrites the Rulebook on Concerns
When parenting a child with complex needs, some struggles - like sleepless nights - become joys. His voice is loud, but it’s a gift.
Feb 22, 20252 min read
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