Black Mothers Matter – A Village for Families Who Need It Most

When I think of the phrase “it takes a village,” I think of all the people, resources, and support systems that hold us up as parents, particularly when the path gets challenging. Raising a child with complex needs has made me deeply aware of how essential a strong support system is. And that’s why I was so moved by my recent encounter with Black Mothers Matter, a charity organisation that understands just how important “the village” is.

I had the privilege of meeting Yomi and Sonah, two of the founders of Black Mothers Matter at K&L Gates’ Black Women in Business panel discussion. Hearing about their work was inspiring and emotional – they embody what it means to stand up for families who may not have all the support they deserve. They’re a community-driven charity, providing resources, a listening ear, and advocacy for Black mothers and families facing challenges. The way they step in, both for those in need of practical support and those just needing to be heard, resonated deeply with me.

Black Mothers Matter fills a void that many of us can relate to. Sometimes, all it takes is knowing there’s someone there to help you get through – someone who understands and is ready to lift some of the weight. They’re building that village for countless women and families, which is a lifeline, particularly in moments that feel lonely and overwhelming. I think back to the days when I was sleeping in uncomfortable hospital chairs, eating stale rusks, and getting through one minute at a time. Those moments would have been so much easier if I’d had a community like Black Mothers Matter to reach out to.

But what makes Black Mothers Matter even more special is that it’s not just about helping people survive; they’re helping them thrive. They’re working toward systemic change, advocating for equal care, and uplifting communities that are often overlooked. For anyone parenting a child with complex needs, this means so much. It’s about the big things, like access to healthcare, but also the small things – the words of encouragement, the handholding, the sense that someone sees you and understands.

So, if you’re reading this and you’re a parent who could use a bit of a village, or if you’re looking to support a cause that truly matters, I encourage you to check out Black Mothers Matter. They’re doing the hard work, and they’re changing lives in a way that only a community-driven organisation can. Let’s give them the props they deserve and help them reach more families, creating a village that lifts us all up.