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Nobody Told Me Bonding Could Be Hard
A heartfelt look at bonding with your newborn when hospital stays, trauma and grief make those early moments look very different.
Aug 234 min read


The Limbo Admission
Surgery has a shape. You can prepare for before and after. But the monitoring admission? No shape. Just hours, stacked on top of each other, in a room that smells of hand sanitiser, trying to read your child's face for clues the machines aren't picking up. We came home with no diagnosis. Here's why that still felt like a win.
Jul 113 min read


Q1 Review: Is Your Child Still Operational? A Quarterly Business Review
The quarterly business review season of parenting a child with additional needs. Audiologist. Physio. Paediatrician. All at once. Obviously.
May 13 min read


The Birthday I Spent in ICU, and the Nurses Who Made It Bearable
My 1st birthday as a parent was spent in ICU with Elias. A cake and a group of nurses reminded me that hospital staff hold families together
Feb 13 min read


Ruling Out the Worst
When your child is non-verbal, you must rule out the worst before you can focus on the small. This is the reality of complex needs.
Dec 7, 20253 min read


The Guilt of Letting Things Slip - Glasses edition
Parent carer guilt is brutal. One missed appointment feels like failure, even when you’ve fought endlessly to be heard.
Sep 26, 20253 min read


Managing a Hospital Admission
Dealing with a hospital stay can drive us all crazy, but coping is essential.
Sep 5, 20243 min read
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